Comments on: It’s your fault. http://www.shaunroundy.com/2010/01/28/its-your-fault/ Fri, 16 Jul 2010 02:08:01 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Susie! http://www.shaunroundy.com/2010/01/28/its-your-fault/comment-page-1/#comment-5043 Susie! Fri, 30 Apr 2010 13:28:28 +0000 http://www.shaunroundy.com/?p=518#comment-5043 I tried explaining to my mom today, how it was OK for me to be quitting my nice job i've loved, and now have issues with. I look at everything and see that the problems I have are a direct result of what I did or didn't do. I DID put too much of myself into it. I DIDN'T assert myself enough on the things I believed. I felt mad about...something. But that "something" was the fact that...I couldn't change anything. Odd concept. I couldn't change anything so therefore the change is in the awareness that by not changing anything, i'm now changing into more of the person I want to be, that accepts change! That's always been scary for me, needing to feel secure, having too many things in my life that change... Change is good! I tried explaining to my mom today, how it was OK for me to be quitting my nice job i’ve loved, and now have issues with. I look at everything and see that the problems I have are a direct result of what I did or didn’t do. I DID put too much of myself into it. I DIDN’T assert myself enough on the things I believed. I felt mad about…something. But that “something” was the fact that…I couldn’t change anything.
Odd concept. I couldn’t change anything so therefore the change is in the awareness that by not changing anything, i’m now changing into more of the person I want to be, that accepts change! That’s always been scary for me, needing to feel secure, having too many things in my life that change…
Change is good!

]]> By: Melanee http://www.shaunroundy.com/2010/01/28/its-your-fault/comment-page-1/#comment-4703 Melanee Mon, 01 Mar 2010 22:42:01 +0000 http://www.shaunroundy.com/?p=518#comment-4703 Last night, I thought about how I used to say that I don't like titles. Labels. Resume accolades and so forth. I feel different now. Now I don't like nor dislike those things, I just don't care. No energy on it. Put a title on me or don't. Label me if you want. It will probably slide off and if it doesn't, great. Whatever. Indeed, everything can change now. And is and will and has. Last night, I thought about how I used to say that I don’t like titles. Labels. Resume accolades and so forth. I feel different now. Now I don’t like nor dislike those things, I just don’t care. No energy on it. Put a title on me or don’t. Label me if you want. It will probably slide off and if it doesn’t, great. Whatever.

Indeed, everything can change now. And is and will and has.

]]> By: Janel http://www.shaunroundy.com/2010/01/28/its-your-fault/comment-page-1/#comment-4525 Janel Tue, 09 Feb 2010 23:57:05 +0000 http://www.shaunroundy.com/?p=518#comment-4525 Good luck with that. Change isn't always so easy, but it'll come. Recognition is the first step, so congrats on that. That "a-ha" moment is so energizing though, isn't it? Good luck with that. Change isn’t always so easy, but it’ll come. Recognition is the first step, so congrats on that. That “a-ha” moment is so energizing though, isn’t it?

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